Several commenters have expressed concerns regarding Alex Marson’s future, particularly since we know how Donkey behaves once she’s been dumped. The stalker behavior exhibited towards Chad McNally was particularly unhinged. In addition to the daily, incessant texting and phone calls, our burro put up a Facebook fauxto album, “Rain & Rainbow 2015 – 2017,” over five months after PhuturePhuckPhace had dumped her for the final time. The hundreds of fauxtos included a text where Rainy says I love you, their “in a relationship” announcement, private notes he left her in the morning, photos of him picking her up, and dozens of snaps of the two of them kissing. The emotionally healthy Julia that she was at the beginning of this year tagged herself and Rain in each fauxto, as well as liked each snap.
Also earlier this year, demented Judy allegedly gained access to Rain’s American Airlines account and discovered when he was returning to California. He feared she’d arrive at his home unannounced and let herself in, which she’d done before. Not sure how all this worked out, and yes, Rain was seeing someone else by this time.
So, Handbag asks, in relation to comments made by Reasonable Woman:
I wish the thread from the previous post, the one to Latka’s parents that began “If you’re reading here,” could be expanded on and featured somehow. There were even more exploits with exes we could name, but the Rain story is the one I hope this poor family is aware of. The fact that she claims she “spent the year in Bali in prayer” is straight up scary given what she was actually doing. I’ve said it before, but it’s never been more obvious than with Rain: if their genders were reversed, the police would have been called. The level of phone and text harassment, not to mention the emails and photos?!? If a man had done that to a woman, everyone would be in agreement she was in danger, but Judy just skates right on to the next mark unscathed. And while it sure seems like this guy, out of all of them, doesn’t deserve it, NONE of them did. We’d never say a woman deserved to be stalked and tortured by a man just because she was a woo or a DJ who wore deconstructed hoodies or whatever. [REDACTED]s 1 & 2 didn’t deserve it; Pancakes didn’t; Avocado and Rain didn’t, either.
Have at it.
Noodles Moodley posted gushily about her new health insurer. I couldn’t tell if she was sincere or if the post was a PAID shill. Judy commented, “I’m going to sign up!” (Does she still not have insurance?) Suddenly, the post vanished.
I’ve been cataloging the 2009 entries and stumbled across this gem, which is part of Judy’s bio for her first foray into life coaching. She was 28 years old at the time, not 14.
I LOVE MY FAMILY – MOM, DAD & LITTLE BROTHER, MY PET DOG LILLY AND MY GIRL FRIENDS … BUT ON THE SHALLOWER SIDE? I LOVE TWITTER, THE COLOR PINK, HEADBANDS, TUTUS, BALLET, FLEECE PAJAMAS, BUBBLE BATHS, MASCARA WHICH DOESN’T LEAD TO RACCOON EYES, TENNIS GEAR AS DAYWEAR, TECH CONFERENCES, THE TV SHOWS GOSSIP GIRL, 30 ROCK, THE WEST WING, AND CURRENTTV’S INFOMANIA, THAT INCREDIBLE TENSION-FILLED MOMENT BEFORE A FIRST KISS, 50S STYLE FASHION, THE LACOSTE ALLIGATOR, 5 INCH HEELS WHICH DON’T HURT, DVF, BETSEY JOHNSON, LILLY PULITZER & OSCAR DE LA RENTA, “SUNDAY CHECK-IN” VOICEMAILS FROM MY DAD, BATHING SUITS WHICH FLATTEN MY STOMACH AND A-LINE SKIRTS WHICH COVER MY DERRIERE, GIRLS WHO WEAR RIBBONS IN THEIR HAIR, MY IPHONE, MY LAPTOP, MY DIGITAL CAMERA, THE BLOGGING PLATFORM TUMBLR, MEN WHO POP THEIR PINK POLO SHIRT COLLARS UN-IRONICALLY, FAMILIES WHO WEAR MATCHING OUTFITS IN THEIR CHRISTMAS CARD PHOTOS, SPICY TUNA ROLLS, 4 AM, STARBUCKS HAZELNUT LATTES, MARTHA BECK, POTTERYBARN FOR TEENS, CHAMOIS SHEETS, DRESSES AS WALL ART, QUILTED CHANEL BAGS, PEARLS, THE SILENCE THAT COMES WHEN IT SNOWS, FLOWERS SENT BY BOYS, EMAILS FROM MY MOM, HANDWRITTEN LETTERS FROM MY 84-YEAR-OLD GRANDMOTHER, AND RAP MUSIC. AND I AM ABSOLUTELY OBSESSED WITH CUPCAKES.
MY FAVORITE SONG IS JOURNEY’S “DON’T STOP BELIEVING.”