You always know things are coming apart at the seams when she resurrects the Taylor Swift obsession. You know what grown men find attractive, Donkey, especially musicians? Women obsessed with the same vapid artists ‘tween girls are obsessed with. And what is so wise about this, anyway? Translation: “I’ve recently been called a drama queen who is too quick to declare my love for the latest dumbass who was actually stupid enough to sleep with me. But I am not!!!! Taylor Swift says I am perfectly normal!!!” Also — she fucking TAGGED Taylor Swift in this post. Oh dear.
Just when I thought I couldn’t love Taylor Swift any more, she writes this profound message about love … on a FAN’s Instagram comments section:
“I think we grow up thinking the only love that counts as true love is the kind that lasts forever or is fully realized. When you have a broken heart, the first thing a stranger will ask is ‘how long were you two together?’ As if your pain can be determined by how long you were with someone. Or if you were with them at all. I don’t think that’s how it works. I think unrequited love is just as valid as any other kind. It’s just as crushing and just as thrilling. No matter what happens in this situation, I want you to remember that what you are doing is selfless and beautiful and kind. You are loving someone purely because you love them, not because you think you’ll ever have your affections reciprocated. You are admiring something for its beauty, without needing to own it. Feel good about being the kind of person who loves selflessly. I think someday you’ll find someone who loves you in that exact same way.”