Julia Allison is maintaining radio silence about her relationships after blaming the internet and her h4t0rz for ruining them in the past. In fact she is adhering so strictly to this policy that she posted this to her blog:
But I’ll be honest with you: Just because a guy is thoughtful (he is), generous (he is), and creative (he is), doesn’t mean that our relationship is perfect. It’s not.
What you didn’t see in those Valentine’s Day photos was a very tough dinner conversation. You didn’t see us trying to learn how to communicate with one another. You didn’t see our doubts and our fears and our insecurities. You just saw glitter and smiles and sugar and champagne. Which is fine … which is part of it. But that’s not all of it.
There is a bunch of other shit, and this little doozy:
The fact is, I’ve never been in a “perfect” relationship. But I have been in love, several times. It is wonderful and confusing and thrilling and overwhelming. But I am not in love with him. I don’t think he is in love with me. (emphasis mine) We care about one another very much, and I hope that will happen eventually … but how can one predict the heart?
Maybe if the internet weren’t so hateful and intrusive Julia could just have her relationships in private like a normal person, but NOOOOOOO you people have to pick, and pry, and FORCE HER to never mention her relationships again. Just so they have a chance. God you people suck. She’s just trying to have a private life in private.